To Whom it May Concern

Well dudes, its been a while. I took a simple road trip that changed my world and my mind. As I write this blog I am thinking about my time in the Mid East and have to say “ Be Careful what you Wish For”.  I started the trip with the same Attitude as I always do – Search for Guinness and Hotties, Simple rule that’s worked in the past.

Then the shit hit the fan. The worst possible thing you could think of happened; I was delivered a message from the guy I wanted to meet “First Hand”,  Now I’m not saying this Monkey has changed his stripes but man am I in a major predicament.

Do I continue my life as nothing happened or do I alter my future with my new found “Curse”.  For now I will ponder the situation at hand and go silent for awhile.

I believe in my book and take nothing back, I recommend that it flourish and help as many on this planet as possible. It has so many pearls and words of wisdom in a positive way. If you read and utilize the strategies it will take you far on your journey toward the Art of Seduction.

I know it’s extremely controversial but that’s the way it is. Everyone who dares to read it knows it comes with a Warning  on the cover and in the first few pages, so I don’t want to hear anymore bullshit from the peanut gallery – ( especially the few that begged for a copy ) only to read me the riot act. For you few simple put – I warned you and ( F. Y. ) you hypocrites.

So one might ask, What happened to Jigilo Jim? You will never believe me but – I came back from the Mid East with

                          “A Conscience”,

This is so counterproductive to “The Art of Seduction” that I am truly at a cross road. I can only hope for an antidote someday and be back in full swing.

That being said, to all that read and follow the rules I wish you the best. It can be the best discovery that you could ever find, I call it My Bible and have had it by my bedside forever. You should always continue to hone your skill and the book is an ongoing reference.

Or, for the few that wake up one day with the curse. Burn this book immediately.  

Well that’s it for now and I leave you with one life long message. Be Careful what you wish for because you never know the repercussions of that wish, It could be the best thing that ever happened to you or like me the worst.

I struggle everyday now with my curse but I am looking forward to me next road trip. However, this trip I will wish for NOTHING !!!!

Jigilo Jim – going silent !

P.S. Good Hunting for the blessed few “Without a Conscience “.

Too Old to Rock N Roll

As I was relaxing this week from a boomerang weekend, I did what I love to do. Sit at my favorite bar with a Cigar and Guinness pondering life. An old man said hello and I just looked at him. He looked kinda weird and weathered. At first I thought he was a street bum and gonna hit me up for money. Turns out his sister just died at BayFront hospital and he was in town to take care of the details. I felt like a jerk for sizing him up so quickly and writing him off for a looser. I am a huge believer in first impressions and not wasting my time unless they happen to be female.

 However, after listening for a few minutes he got my attention. His sister was a local and didn’t amount to much but he on the other hand had multiple businesses and was extremely successful. My curiosity got the best of me and wanted to know how two siblings could turn out so different. He said to me that he was a functional drunk and she wasn’t.

 Interesting that he would admit something so sensitive to a complete stranger.   I wanted to know more and he was happy to oblige. I’m sure we all can relate to having someone or more in our circle of life that parties a little too much. I wanted to make sense of this mans journey in life and came away with my take.

He spent his entire life working his ass off and had no time for his family, let alone his sister that he hadn’t seen in years. Now I might be a hard ass myself but I always make time for the women in my life and the few people that I consider family and friends. I could only imagine how life would totally suck if I didn’t take some time to smell the roses.

So the point this week is “ Smell the Roses” – and never ever get caught up in the rat race of life to forgo your mission – Avoiding  being Too Old to Rock n Roll. One of my tips to becoming a master in the art of seduction is rest and relaxation. Now I know we are in hard economic times and not everyone can play as much as I do but make a point of planning a few trips over the next year and recharge your brain as much as you can.

If you find yourself feeling down because life is getting tough remember the guy in the bar who just spent his life working his ass off and missed his prime. “ Don’t be this guy” no matter what !  

On that note I’m feeling drained from all the negative vibes and the # 1 solution for charging my brain is “ ROAD TRIP – gee where shall I go ?

Till next week dude.

Bike Week – Final Weekend

Ouch !!!! That’s all I can say right now. My head is on fire. Why and When am I gonna LEARN !!!

Well , probably never. It just wouldn’t be same if I wasn’t hung over on the final weekend of Daytona. This for me is one of my favorite times to be with the boys. Of course there were a few ho’s involved but I had to keep that on the down low. I might be repeating myself from last week and I always try to give something new each week but this event is worth some more words.

Where can you go these days with yourself or the Gang from the old neighborhood and cut loose. I am the king of being “A Lone Wolf” and 99 % of the time it’s best. But occasionally you need some male bonding. This is a great time to share some stories and even get a few pointers from the seasoned Pros. It always makes for a great laugh when you hear the lines of B.S. that my fellow studs use in the wild.

Some of these guys have scored with more women that Don Juan himself. Why you may ask and it’s oh so simple. They are living the DREAM. A common thread is that most are self made and extremely successful in business. This gives them a major advantage. They have interesting lives and have bags of cash to back it up.  You would think that looks alone would be the answer but I have one friend that looks like the penguin from batman and bangs more hotties than me.

He exudes self confidence, has the attitude of superman and is one of the funniest characters on the planet. This combination has the girls surrounding him. I’ll let you in on a little secret too. It wasn’t always this way. He was a flop with chicks in high school and even part of college. But then something happened. He found his calling. His career took off and that got the wheels turning – No pun intended, he has a trucking business that spits out so much cash flow that every time you’re around him it’s the ride of a lifetime.

So remember when ever you’re out - there is always a lesson. Have the time of your life and hang with guys you can learn from. I for one have a lot of knowledge under my belt but always walk away with a few pearls that I get to use on my next encounter.

This event proved once again that you need to have some Props, the right attitude, and either working toward or already have a career that gives you the flexibility to play hard.

On a last note, where ever you are on the ladder of life take the bull by the horns and make it happen. You can be the guy that rides the wildest curves and sees life from the seat of a Harley or you can be the guy we pass on the road raking the leaves in his front yard.

It’s up to you but it’s better from the Riders Seat !!!!

Rock on and Ride Hard.

Till the next ride dude.

Bike Week

Well boys some days it’s just about us. Now I’m the first to say never and I will say it again, never let your guard down when it comes to picking up babes and locations. However, some places are harder than others to be in the ideal environment for snagging babes. One such place is where about 500,000 guys gather once a year to show off their muscles.

Now you might be asking yourself, why would I even think about spending my valuable time at such a gathering. Simple, It’s COOL !!!. and being the master that I am my ratio of times there to times getting laid is just about 100%. The girls that go to these events are hard core and know exactly what they want. A good looking guy with a Harley and the confidence to make it the time of their life.

Now it does take some money to pull this one off because you can be camping at the local camping ground and I have done this in the past but it’s not worth it. Spend some money and get a place just off main street. It can be the Hilton or what ever fits your budget. This is the only area for me. You get to ride all day and put your bike away and then hit the Hot Tub where the girls are. It never fails that some babes are hanging at the tiki bar and looking for some action. What you have accomplished is trumping about 99.9 % of the hungry dudes on the street. This is the SECRET to your success at Bike Week. I travel with one or two of my buddies from NY during this trip and we always have a time to remember.

Here is one other tip. You don’t even need a bike. I have buddies that travel from all over the country to get to Daytona just for the party. So, no excuse if you’re looking for a fun week to enjoy some drinking and music with your best friends. Get down here.

Not to mention that I think it’s snowing somewhere. The weather for this week is cool but sunny. Daytona brings in about a quarter of a billion dollars for this event and man it’s CRAZY. This is one of my favorite times of the year even if I don’t snag a babe. My friends and as you know I don’t have too many always say I’m not allowed to talk to girls because it’s all about the boys time together. That being said, I can usually maintain until about the 13^th beer. Then it’s all bets off and the fun begins. My buddies that I’ve known since I’ve been 2 yrs old put up with me and depending who hangs till the end winds up being my wing man and gets to learn from the master at no charge.

I have so many great stories from bike week and that’s what it’s really about. Being with the few that mean so much to you and having the time of your life. Remember this – life is short. I guarantee that your problems in life will be there when you get home but a road trip makes those problems just a little more palatable.

Well boys its 5 47pm and time for the Hot Tub. I’m looking down from the balcony and see some hotties. Time to roll. By next Sunday I should have another great story for the memory.

Ride Hard !!!

What Women Know

I had the great pleasure of meeting a woman the other night that had no clue who I am. There are many advantages some times of being incognito. It was a fun conversation that turned more into an interview than a date. By the time we finished our drinks, the night was long and once again I learned more about this elusive species. I can’t get enough when it cums to women. She asked many direct questions and is of the opinion that Men are Assholes. As I recovered from my laughter I had to agree but interjected a key word “ MOST “. I had to bite my tongue so many times that it still hurts when I eat and it’s been 48 hrs.

I listened much more that I spoke ie. Rule # 8 and she had a lot to get off her chest about us monkeys. Her simple complaint was that men have no clue of “ how to please a woman”. They are all self centered and are more interested in the latest sports score than planning a road trip with the girl they’re with. As see continued to dump, I began to realize that she was fishing in a very limited gene pool. My advise , no better yet my rebuttal as this was turning into an outright political debate on mankind vs. the female race. I told her that she was absolutely right. Yeah maybe I had a motive, SEX !!!! but then I did get her attention and began to give her some insight into the male psyche.

I began to give her my interpretation of a successful relationship and why 99 % of them fail. Communication, yes the ability to speak in the tongue of Human Kind. The one thing that sets Modern Man from the Chimps is Reason. If you decide to develop your relationship hunt on communication and reason then you will not be so disappointed. She absolutely agreed and was truly surprised at my skill. Yeah, like I said there is always a motive and you have to always be thinking of The Game !!.

After much debate we switched to the real subject and why she has never been satisfied. Turns out her sex life has not been the greatest and says that she can take care of herself better than any man. Interesting, I say she’s just never been with the right man and I have just the cure.

We continued our conversation about how we’re gonna solve this mystery. I made her a bet that I personally could change her mind and that it’s better to be satisfied by another human than any mechanical device. She begged to differ but there is only one way to find out.

I’ll save the conclusion for another time but as The Master of Seduction – …

 I’ll let you all make your our own conclusions.

One great thing about having the ability to communicate is that you can always set yourself up for a Great Opportunity and close another deal.

VALENTINES’ DAY

Yes it s the day of LOVE!!! Now for all you players out there I’m sure you’re just like me and need a week to cover all that territory. Valentines’ day is a great day for kicking back and playing with the girl of your dreams. Just make sure she is single, available, and no baggage. That being said we all don’t play in the same sand box and need to be clandestine at times.

I for one, am done with sneaking behind closed doors.  Playing around with someone’s girl or wife will lead to one of two things. Flowers on her grave or flowers on both of your graves. Either way you loose.  Life is getting simple for me as I get a little smarter in my choice of female companionship. Now don’t get me wrong as I stated in Chpt X – I’m no saint but I am trying to learn from some of my major blunders. Read that chapter again when the opportunity to bang a married women arises, and it will.

So what is today all about? Well for most it’s about Flowers and Props. I suggest you read Chpt VII cause it’s a great day for your personal florist and she will be impressed on how sensitive you are by sending out flowers to all the women in your life. Please remember which ones to sign with your real name and which ones not. I keep it easy. I have two florists that I use on a regular basis because flowers are a great way to send a thought on any day not just a holiday.

Getting back to why I use two florists. It’s best if you have one for the babes in your life that are not attached and can get stuff from you with no backlash. The other is for the babes in your life that have something to loose like a marriage and need total anonymity. You can still send them flowers but make sure they’re from “Aunt Venus”.   

Another great tip is timing and location; don’t always think that romance is one day out of the year. We all love surprises so play a little and belly up. I heard a sad story from a close woman friend of mine about the man in her life. She said that as they were talking about the upcoming holiday he asked – Ok, what are the instructions. Her reply was simple and direct. “I don’t come with a manual”. Now do think he got laid? I’d be surprised if he even gets back in her bed.

The moral to this story is Take Charge. Remember, women want to be with Confident Men who know W.T.F. their doing. I told her that I would give him a copy of my book for FREE !! but he’s probably too cool and too dumb to learn from The Master of the Art of Seduction. Good for us masters, since there is one more female out there that will benefit when she finds a guy that knows how to play it smart.

I’m always amazed at how many guys still haven’t figured it out yet. There is so much information out there and I’m just one resource. If I’ve said it once, I’ve said it a thousand times. Treat this as a business and do your homework. This is the ultimate game of life. Take it seriously. Read as much as you can on this subject and you will increase your closing ratio 100 fold. I enjoy reading and searching for exciting things to do with the women in my life. They all know that I give 125 %.

Life is short so remember “My Goal” as it should become yours too. Don’t remember the goal? READ !!! the book again.

It’s your manual to life’s greatest pursuit.

Super Bowl Sunday !!!!!!

What better thing to do than watch the Super Bowl with all your buddies!!! Right ? Well my friends, you know what they say. Keep your friends close and your enemies even closer.  I’ll cut to the chase on this one because some of you might need to read this before the big game. Remember Chpt. 13, there is only one game in my life and that is “ The Art of Seduction” and a huge part of this is Sport F. I’ll recap for those that don’t remember. Some of my best S.F. is when a girl’s boyfriend or husband is hanging with the boys watching the game because that’s when she feels really safe that he ain’t no way coming home for a while and we can time the hours that we have by watching the highlights.

So my tip for the day is keeping your babe close. Invite her and the other guy’s babes to where ever you are and keep one eye on the game and one on your babe. You will find out real quick who was making plans without you. It’s actually a great test and if she says that she just wants to be alone with her dog tonight you might have an issue. Nothing a private eye can’t help with if you’re a little paranoid.

Now the reason that I’m even addressing this secret is because Jason from LA wanted to know if I was serious about Chpt 13 because he is leaving his beauty back home and going to the game in Miami.

Simple answer “ Yeah Man “ it’s for real. Sorry to break it to ya and do hope you have fun in South Beach to make up for your loss, but I don’t have a crystal ball. Maybe you have a good girl , Ha !!!!  and then again you’re a Saints Fan.

Wow a double wammy!! Two losses in one day, I think I,m gonna cry.

Only kiddin my friend, enjoy the game and stay focused on the score. I know I am. Let’s see, maybe the game will go into Extra Innings and as I’ve said before I will get paid in Spades.

Ok, enough giving out key information on How to SPOIL a great time for a True Master. You guys that are taking the game “ Sport F” to the max, pack your bags, stop by the grocery store and pick up some equipment i.e chocolate syrup, strawberries, whipped cream, and my all time favorite M & M’s with the NFL logo on em and get to work. This could be a day to remember. And for some, you might even make it into the Hall of Fame for being the MVP. I know of one PUA who has been planning this rendezvous like a Pro. He has his game face on today and is even bringing a helmet for his babe. Doesn’t want her to get hurt while she is banging her head on the goal post.

Man I love Sports !!!      Go Jets !!! They made right ?

Common Sense, Yet Not Common Practice

So I’m at a party this week – yeah life is good! and a girl introduces herself and says, I love your book, even I’m getting some cool stuff out of it but isn’t most of this common sense?

Well Rachel, I couldn’t agree more however here’s the deal. From my years of observation and experience or better put inexperience because even I was a know it all in the beginning and didn’t need anyone’s help or advice. Us Neanderthals’ think we are God’s gift and can snag a babe with just our looks. Yes, I’ve seen this happen and if you’re that fortunate to be so good looking that babes drop to their knees or buy you cars just so they can be with you then maybe you should give me a call and get on the payroll as “ A Master” and starting developing your following and get paid to do what comes so easy.

But, back to the real world for the other 99 % of us. The Art of Seduction is a learned process. How many of you have spent a lot of money on a self help book or CD and never implemented one idea. This is when I came to realize that we all suffer from a simple truth. We had the common sense to buy the material and for some even actually read it, but how many actually put it into PRACTICE !!!.

You need to continually develop your skills and more importantly practice those skills on a daily basis. Every moment in time you are being judge by your peers and strangers alike. I do hope that you read Chpt 6 by now because it all comes together in this one. Make sure when you’re practicing it’s in front of a live woman and not the mirror. I laughed my ass off the other night when a friend asked another friend if he’s been on a date lately. The guy replied, oh yeah just the other night I had a great time. And then he asked, does it count if she’s not Organic? I’ll leave that up to each of you but the bottom line is you will only get better at this game if you’re talking and dating Real aka LIVE !!! women.

So start immediately by following the plan that you are working continuously on from some of the previous chapters and test your knowledge that you have gained. Be yourself and as they say Practice makes Perfect.

I’ll leave you with one thought and a key lesson I learned along time ago. Some thing that is absolute common sense and for me to this day some thing that I’m not afraid to admit because I love ALL WOMEN.

My mentor of mentors Jamesy – said it the best and it’s something to live by to this day.

Just start picking up chicks even if the’re Ugly. It’s Great PRACTICE and that’s why

GOD INVENTED – Doggie Style !!   

CAVE TIME !!!!!

It was a Great week back in the Real World – actually first full week since the 1^st. As much as I enjoy living in reality I do have the nick name – “DREAMER”. No matter what, don’t ever let anyone spoil your dreams. Now you can dream small or dream big. Up to you dude. My advice, Bigger is Better. You can always count on one of your closest friends to bring you down immediately. Hey isn’t that what best friends are for? Remember Rule # 7 and even that’s hard to do at times. This is why today, it’s all about you and your CAVE !!. I’ve given you some great ideas in Chpt. 12. So it’s up to you to create your environment. For me, it was a couple of excellent motorcycle rides and a Regatta on Saturday. Remember when I said TOYS help. If you don’t have any of your own that’s ok, just make sure you have some people in your life with a few. I happen to own my Harley so that’s an easy fix. However, I have a buddy who owns a 40’ sailboat and is always in need of a crew when he races. Now here’s an inside secret, if you are looking to expand your list of Locations go down to the local yacht club and sign up for sailing lessons or ask around for a racing schedule. I guarantee there will be one or more boats looking for extra crew. It’s a great way to meet some new pussy because where there’s water there’s always hot babes. Just don’t bang the captain’s wife YET! You want to at least have some fun on his boat for a while till you get kicked off and onto another yacht. I use this escape on many levels. I grew up sailing and had my share of boats, so it’s a Great Cave. You forget about all your troubles in the world when you’re racing. Another benefit is the life style. I love hanging around successful people and having that rub on me for a while. Usually the end of the race is an after party and that’s when it gets even better. I always make sure to show up with plenty of liquor and cigars. You get to party all day racing if you’re with the right crew and score with the girls that night in the pool at the club. It’s just one way to relax and recharge.

Another awesome by-product of all that fun. The stories when you’re out the next time looking for some strange. You get to tell the babe you’re talking to – Yeah just got done with another regatta, man was that fun. It’s so cool to watch her face when she says, what you RACE.  And the story begins. Remember Bigger is Better. Not that I ever embellish but W.T.F. play it up a little cause You da Man !!! and get her on the Yacht. No captain ever refuses a hot babe on board. You just went from another dull dude in the bar to a Rock Star.

Try it, you’ll be hooked. I guarantee this one. You created another cave and get to dream up so good ones for the next encounter. Hit me back with some great stories.            

Education, Education, Education

Ok if you haven’t figured it out yet. I am a major advocate for higher education on all levels. I just spent two full days at an incredible internet marketing seminar and came away with some million dollar ideas that I will be implementing over the years to come. That’s right, I said it – YEARS! Remember if you are serious at any thing especially The Art of Seduction then slow down, take a deep breath and walk like a stud instead of running like an idiot.

You need to realize that you are establishing a BRAND; you are no longer just one of the typical guys out there. I can give you all the advice in the world but takes this one Pearl to Heart. Women love men who can provide a sense of Security. Could be for a night, weekend, week, or a life time. You have to decide who and what you are. What is your claim to fame, i.e. Brain Surgeon, Rocket Scientist. Yes, I’m being a little facetious but come on man get creative! And make it believable. If you’re washing pots at IHOP then you might have an issue but again follow your passion and create a part time gig until you work yourself up to manager at IHOP. Women love a great story and generally root for the underdog. The only issue they don’t like is a negative attitude. I don’t care how down on your luck you are, change it right NOW!

The definition of luck is – When opportunity meets preparedness.     

Be Prepared when the Opportunity Presents itself or more importantly – When She Presents herself. I got a question from a guy this week and man is he under Big Time. Not happy with his present job, a few major obstacles from partying too much and a run in with the law. I can go on but you get the picture. Simply put, Dude – pull yourself out of the gutter, dust yourself off and say Today is a new day. Forget the baggage and put on a smile. Life is good, no better yet Life is Great! You are light years ahead of most and you don’t even know it. There is a Hot Girl who has you on her radar. All you have to do is believe in you. Forget all the guys that are feeding you negative thoughts, they are just jealous. She is into you and now you have to CLOSE the DEAL. Start by asking her out for coffee and when you get her to the coffee shop tell her about your future GOALS and they better be positive. I’m not sure what your particular gift is but dig deep and come up with a cool one. Read Chapter eleven and the answers will come. I know you have what it takes so start implementing the Rules. Hit me back with the outcome.

Remember it’s all about Educating yourself with more knowledge than your competition. The majority of real players out there are working on their skills daily. I hone my skills with Laser Focus. It’s time you do the same.